If, like me, you have had a secure attachment experience it may be something else.
So, what about me? Why would it be so difficult for me and possibly for you too? They may always be reluctant to leave a situation or be more reluctant to fully enter in, with the anticipation of having to end. They have had terrible losses in their short lives and have been forced to say goodbye unexpectedly and without the ability to finish well. I would much rather slip away and pretend I had said goodbye. My grandparents all died before I was born or before I could remember them and we didn’t really experience much trauma as a family, relatively speaking.Īs I’ve grown though I’ve noticed the ending part of anything is something I dread. I didn’t lose much in my early childhood. Whether that’s finishing a course with people, finishing a visit to a friend that I haven’t seen for a while or ending a 23 year marriage.
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